cat, I'm not Mennoniteman (but I
am a man and attend a Mennonite church
). I am a construction manager for a company that does mostly pre-engineered metal buildings, which is what I assume you are referring to as "steel I-beam type".
The first question - what size building are you looking at? If the span is 40' or less, check closely to be sure that you are getting a comparable package. My first suspicion is that if a pre-engineered metal building in the size range mentioned on this thread appears to be competitive with a pole building of identical dimensions, something is not "apples to apples". I say this because when I am contacted by someone looking for a quote on a 30 x 40 building (or similar size), my first question is "Do you want a pre-engineered metal building even if it costs more than a pole building?" If the answer is "I am looking for the best price/most economical", I suggest that they talk to one of the local reputable pole builders.
As Mennoniteman said, the cost of the foundations required for the metal buildings usually pushes them well above pole building costs, and I would add that most people are far more comfortable with (and better equipped for) adding their own finishes or additions to a wood-framed building.
If you are talking about spans of 60+', metal buildings may begin to compete, but spans of 80' and more are where steel really comes into its own, so to speak.
My company has erected a couple of those building packages supplied by one of those high-pressure outfits that advertises prominently. Each time, I was called in after the purchase was made and the purchaser was badly disappointed with what the package included, along with being in a financial bind because they bought without understanding the lengthy "Not Included" list of needful things. I am not saying that you can't have a good experience with a company like that, but my opinion is that particular niche epitomizes the old "buyer beware" scenario.
Of course, there is also the possiblity that someone in your area is giving you a ridiculously good deal on a metal building while all the pole builders you talked to are overloaded and therefore charging a premium.
Just be careful, as that's not a typical scenario.