My boy's first deer

j-bird

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I typed this up for another forum and thought I would share this here as well. I may already have shared this story before...... this was several years ago as the boy in this story is now 21 and not so much a boy any more.

I don’t remember the year or even how old he was, but Junior (my boy Tom) was out with me for a youth hunt for deer. He had been the year before, but we didn’t see a deer he could shoot. We had several close encounters but for one reason or another it just never came together. His first youth hunt we didn’t even see a deer. The next year we had a pretty yearling buck walk right up to us…..but at that time the youth hunt was for antlerless deer only. He was still fairly young so getting him out for firearms season was a struggle as well.

This year was going to be different. He had practiced with his single shot 410 and was hitting a paper plate at 50 yards. Shooting wasn’t the issue – seeing deer he could shoot was the issue. So that Saturday morning we got up and I chose a location where I knew the deer liked to move. We sat on a steep bank which gave us an elevation advantage like you would get from a stand without the falling concerns. The first hour passes and the sun has come up and we have not seen anything. He is growing impatient and starting to squirm around. We are sitting on the ground, no blind, just leaned up against a large tree. Another ½ hour passes and he is making more noise in the leaves than the squirrels are. “Dad……dad, I gotta pee.” I explain he needs to wait as the deer like moving in the morning. A few minutes later, “Dad…..dad, I’m cold.” I explain that he needs to be quiet and I give him my hunting coat to use as a blanket. This goes on for roughly another hour or so. If you have ever taken a kid hunting you know what I’m talking about. He had an excuse, need or a question about anything and everything.

Out of the corner of my eye I see what looked like a shadow move. I tell Tom, “Tom, I think we might have a deer coming our way, you need to get ready.” “Where dad, where!” I hear from him as he is more busy looking and nearly crawling over top of me to see the deer. “Sit still, gun your gun ready, she is going to come right down the path in front of us here” I tell him. He gets ready and I make sure he has a decent rest and as the deer comes into view his eyes grow and grow. It’s only a young doe, but to Tom this was the greatest deer he had ever seen! I whisper to Tom, “When I stop her if you have a good shot you shoot. You know where to aim and remember to squeeze the trigger and not jerk it. I’ll stop her with a noise and when I do if the shot is good you let her have it” He nods in confirmation as the deer gets closer. She is alone and isn’t in a hurry. She wanders into a good position and I make a soft bleat type sound with my mouth. She stops perfectly and looks right at us. Pow! That little 410 goes off and she bolts away into some tall weeds between the timber where we are and the cut corn field. I saw her go in but I never saw her leave the tall weeds, and I quickly lose sight of her!

I look over and Tom is shaking like he is nearly having a seizure! “Did I get her, did I get her Dad!” Tom’s eyes are still as wide as they can be. I stand up and Tom starts to reload the gun…..”No, don’t do that….hand me the gun…..you are a little shaken up to be messing with a loaded gun right now.” I take the gun from Tom and he is struggling to get to his feet. I tell him, “you stay right here and you watch out there to see if you see her run. I’m going to go down and look for blood.” Tom stays put and I work my way down the bank to where the deer was standing. I look back up at Tom and he is watching for the deer. I motion as if to say “seeing anything?” Tom shakes his head no. I then call up to him, “Am I standing where the deer was?” Tom shakes his head yes. I then motion to Tom to come down the hill. Well it’s a good thing I took the gun with me…..Tom walked about half way down the bank and slid on his butt the second half…..because he lost his footing! I make sure he is OK and he is fine. I asked him if the streak on his britches was from the ground of from him!

I have reloaded the gun and I am in front as I am looking for blood and fearful this deer is going to jump and run and the last thing I want is Tom trying to shoot a moving deer with me in front of him. I start to get a sick feeling in my stomach because I just am not seeing anything. No hair, no blood, no nothing. I’m fearful he missed…..the more I look the more that seems to be the case. Then I see it, a small bit of blood. OK – he hit it, but how well? We enter the tall weeds following real faint blood and I just know this deer is going to bolt. We didn't wait long at all to go after it and I didn't see it go down - bad call on my part. It’s slow going and the weeds offer no real view other than a few feet. I find small specks of blood but nothing like I am used to. I gun and archery hunt and have seen some weak blood trails but I find just enough to keep me moving forward. Tom is growing impatient and worried. I can see the fear in his face…. I reassure him, “She hasn’t run out of here yet, she is here, we will find her.” Then of course I lose the blood – it was heading right toward the open field, but I know she never made it that far…..she HAS to be in here. Tom is looking around and then disappears! Thud, he hits the ground….. “Dad!, Dad!, Dad!!! I found her, I found her!!!” He sure did – he literally tripped over her in the weeds. She had changed directions and fell over. I said a short “Thank you God!” under my breath just then. It wasn’t for me….it was for that little boy who was wrestling his very first deer up out of the weeds in an effort to get a better look. I thought he was going to explode with excitement… It's a good thing the deer was dead because I'm not sure he would have felt go otherwise!

I look the deer over and the shot was good but the 410 lacked the energy to go thru the deer and I could feel the slug lodged under the hide on the far side - deer don't bleed much from a small single hole. I had to calm him down. It was time for something that I hoped he was mature enough to understand. “Tom? I need you to calm down” I said in a calm but lower voice. “Tom, we need to understand fully what has happened here this morning.” I reached out and put my hand on the deer and Tom did the same as he scooted next to me not knowing what was going to happen. “Tom, this morning we took a life, we took the life of this wonderful creature so that we can eat and have life ourselves. We need to make sure we never take that for granted.” Tom turned and hugged me and said, “I feel happy and sad at the same time….is that OK?” “Yes – yes it is, I would be worried if you felt differently” I told him. He wiped away a few tears and then that smile quickly returned.

We went to the house and got the truck. This was before I had a cell phone so we had to wait to get to the house for pictures and phone calls. He called everybody he knew was a deer hunter. He was the man of the hour and of the day and of the week. We had to get the roll of film developed that day (yep 32 exposures developed for maybe a dozen actual pictures) but we did it and he carried a picture around with him everywhere he went “just in case somebody asks” is what he told me. I will never forget that day. Some of my most memorable hunts have nothing to do with me killing a deer.

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That's awesome, I remember when my boy shot his first buck,we was in a two man ladder stand together. We just got settled in and here comes a 120 in 9 point walking down the trail. I grunted to stop him before I could open my mouth to tell my son to shoot I hear bang and he dropped the buck in his tracks. Well you would have thought I just shot a 200 inch buck. I jumped yelled with so much excitement I think every Hunter in the county could hear me.
 
That's awesome, I remember when my boy shot his first buck,we was in a two man ladder stand together. We just got settled in and here comes a 120 in 9 point walking down the trail. I grunted to stop him before I could open my mouth to tell my son to shoot I hear bang and he dropped the buck in his tracks. Well you would have thought I just shot a 200 inch buck. I jumped yelled with so much excitement I think every Hunter in the county could hear me.
As much as I hunt for ME - when I hunt with my kids - it's just different and I try SO much harder for them to get a deer.....any deer. I love taking kids hunting.
 
Absolutely,my son shot several does before he was able to get his first buck. He had so much bad luck of closing the deal before he finally got it done. I think all that bad luck what made it so exciting.
 
Absolutely,my son shot several does before he was able to get his first buck. He had so much bad luck of closing the deal before he finally got it done. I think all that bad luck what made it so exciting.
I hear you on that. I was with my boy on 2 different occasions when he had a buck in his sights and couldn't get it done. The first one was during a youth hunt.....restricted to only antlerless deer. The buck literally walked up to us and begged to be shot....but rules are rules. The second the buck comes moving thru and we are on the ground like turkey hunters at different trees. The buck walks in and my son is ready and I hear "click" when I should have heard "boom"! He forgot to take his safety off!!! Buck didn't stick around. He finally got it done and he was thrilled. Now he takes bucks that rival his old man's......and that worries me!:D I literally have him beat by less than an inch for the biggest deer off of our place per the official score sheet.....and those bucks where killed in the same year not 200 yards from each other....... I actually though he had me beat!

I have lots of stories of hunting with my boy and am on a mission to get my daughter her first deer this year. I remember those stories far better than those of my own deer.....but I suppose that's the way it's supposed to be.
 
When Luke was preparing to shoot his first deer, he whispered to me, "Dad, why are you shaking?"
Great story JBird. You are a good Dad.
Thanks Fish, There are a lot of thing sin life I can't give my kids, but an intro to the outdoors and some of the life lessons learned in the outdoors is one of them I try to give them.

I get excited for the kids, but I typically only shake when I'm on the trigger or shortly afterward. I did take another boy hunting for his first deer in an tower blind and I swear the entire thing was vibrating as he was getting ready to shoot......but that's yet another story. Hopefully I have another success story with my youngest daughter this fall. We went last year, but she wasn't ready.....I pushed too much. She has already asked about squirrel hunting and we will do some of that as a "warm-up" this year.
 
My oldest took to it like a fish to water. My youngest is an excellent shot but only his first couple of deer and turkeys got him excited. He finally quit hunting in his early teens, I think, although he has no problem with me killing something to eat, it's just not his cup of tea. Was I disappointed ? Yes, but if we all hunted, the woods would be a little overcrowded.

My latest mentoring was for my grown (almost 50) son-in-law. He was never exposed to hunting, and kinda had a rough childhood in many ways. Once I determined that I actually liked this guy, I gave him some shooting instruction and some range time. The next step was to sit with him while we deer hunted. The first time he missed, but it was a stretch for a new hunter. The second time, same morning, he clocked a doe. We both could not have been more excited had it been a booner buck. He was, and is, very gratified to become a hunter. He will be looking for his fifth deer this fall, and I'm looking forward to it as much as he is.
 
My oldest took to it like a fish to water. My youngest is an excellent shot but only his first couple of deer and turkeys got him excited. He finally quit hunting in his early teens, I think, although he has no problem with me killing something to eat, it's just not his cup of tea. Was I disappointed ? Yes, but if we all hunted, the woods would be a little overcrowded.

My latest mentoring was for my grown (almost 50) son-in-law. He was never exposed to hunting, and kinda had a rough childhood in many ways. Once I determined that I actually liked this guy, I gave him some shooting instruction and some range time. The next step was to sit with him while we deer hunted. The first time he missed, but it was a stretch for a new hunter. The second time, same morning, he clocked a doe. We both could not have been more excited had it been a booner buck. He was, and is, very gratified to become a hunter. He will be looking for his fifth deer this fall, and I'm looking forward to it as much as he is.
Not everyone is a hunter at heart. My 2 middle daughters are not. They will fish and don't mind the outdoors, but it just doesn't excite them....and that's fine. I simply opened the door, they where not too excited about what was on the other side. My youngest loves it I just tossed her into the deep end too soon. I was impatient. We will shoot some squirrels early this fall and get a little more comfortable with shooting at critters before we head to the stand this year. It was a process with my boy and I just got ahead of myself with my youngest. Sometimes things just move too fast and they are not quite ready......we will have a much better season this year.

Son-in-law.......that you determined you actually liked.....that's funny......but not too funny. I have 3 daughters of my own....so I will be there some day. Glad you found a way to connect with him. You sure you didn't take him hunting hoping there would be an "accident"?!?!?
 
[QUOTE="j-bird, post: 52381, member: 67

Son-in-law.......that you determined you actually liked.....that's funny......but not too funny. I have 3 daughters of my own....so I will be there some day. Glad you found a way to connect with him. You sure you didn't take him hunting hoping there would be an "accident"?!?!?[/QUOTE]

No, that was her first husband you're thinking of !:mad: This one is a quiet, hard working, honest guy, and he's like another son, which is what we all want in a son-in-law but find all too seldom. He and I have a good time together.
 
What a wonderful story. Excitement, success and reverence. I hunted before tree stands! In those days we stood on tree limbs, and I got buck fever so bad I nearly fell out of the tree, so I relate well to your son's first deer. Thanks for that story, it's what it's all about!
 
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